The history of women suffered an interesting outlook being considered either ‘
Either a woman was so much cherished that she herself was ashamed to behave naturally being burdened by titles as ‘Mother’, ‘Sister’ or ‘
Or she was considered a witch who had the power to divert men and influence. Hence they were evil spirits trapping and weakening men sexually.
Our distant past, recent past, passing present and very present are all great proofs of how weak a man’s psychology is and how weak their control.
These poor people had tried, have tried, have been trying and trying still, millions of means to hide their helplessness over sex.
He is aware that if a woman wants can change his entire existence with quite an ease. She can dismiss his individuality and his life may completely be wrecked.
Therefore something must be done! And the solution was to blind her to her own strength. Hence a society was formed as an instrument.
This was a good plan indeed and women had to be controlled as they began misusing their strength recklessly.
We know of stories when great yogis meditated- storms and thunders didn’t affect their cause, ghosts and spirits couldn’t move them, snakes, insects, floods or any natural hazards failed against their will. Then comes a lady swinging her graceful limbs, a simple strip-tease done and years of efforts crumble and melt.
However, women have thus harmed a lot, distracted many kings from their duties, diverted saints from being saintly, played tricks to have wealth and ruled over lives mercilessly.
And whether you call it God or Nature the beam balance of creation when was heavy with ‘misuse’ on one pan dropped them down with weight and men formed society in their favour for existence.
This worked! Women were made shy of sex and men encouraged. They wrote poems to praise, told stories of religion, talked of sin to scare and crippled them.
This however brought a balance initially. Society made life smooth and balanced, with work divided, commitments made decreasing sexual chaos. It was less a fight of strength, more on understanding and care.
But seeing women under control men soon became tricky.
He convinced her to drop her sword to hold his hands for a walk together and when she gave her hands with trust, he tied them up cleverly.
And marriage is a system in society assumed by a woman as a ‘walk together’ whereas a man sees a captive in chain being dragged behind making him a master- the same enacted around the fire giving seven good chances to guess but women being emotional fools are still so deceived.
Betrayal, torture, slavery, murder, rape- what didn’t follow after that?
And now is the transition period.
If life is a journey and all people alive at same time like batch mates, then we must realize we are in an eventful batch witnessing an exciting phase of creation. Its that phase when the pan is heavy again quivering to drop. Its that exiting moment when the heavy pan drops a little, rises again, shivers, quivers and dances keeping you in guess what’s to happen next.
And its an interesting time. Exploring sex has began greatly with the coming of contraceptive pills and women are again realizing their strength with every coming day. Increase in divorce rate indicates their discovery of chain behind the illusion of ‘romantic walk together’. Rupture of hymen is no more a terror before the arrival of a married tyrant. Women who were shown the authorized permission from God and beaten up every day now asked for equal share in wealth in
Women all over the world have been waking up at their own proportion. Its Party time! And the beam balance is dancing with thrill releasing years of stored potential energy into kinetic.
And all the thoughtful people who are worried at this phase...hold on! The highest energy involvement happens at the change and hence the chaos. Sit back and watch till the transition is over. Be patient till every molecule settles down to form a new compound. Women being more creative and emotional, more nurturing and soft would definitely do things better than nuclear war.
And its my prayer that same mistake is not repeated again- sex not used as power but a meditation together to communicate to God often- to involve Him to bring the pans at same plane and end this dirty struggle for strength. And equality if ever happens would happen at the will of women because men who think with reason would never find this rational. Its easy for a woman to forgive, come low, sacrifice, hold hands and walk together without any thought of betrayal. She doesn’t think with logic. She loves and aimlessly loves. She wouldn’t need a reason to make you equal, she wouldn’t proudly walk having a captive in chain behind. She would perhaps place you higher because you are the reason to love. She would perhaps be grateful and want to give you more and more as through you she learnt to love. Love could be her only reason- her reason behind reason to love or reason behind life to live.
Hence a good time is arriving for sure! A lot of chaos though in transition, a good hope lies beneath.
Earth is expecting a good cause to live.
Earth is pregnant with potential to peace.